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Sunday, December 16, 2012

Auspicious dates for housewarming, open house, party, gathering, etc. in 2013

Here is the list of auspicious dates in 2013 for organizing and hosting meet-up with friends and/or relatives (会友), which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu.

The dates are applicable for housewarming, open house, home party, gathering, potluck, and any other similar functions to meet up with friends and/or relatives. (Click the image to enlarge)



Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

Auspicious dates in 2013 for getting a baby

Here is the list of auspicious dates in 2013 for getting a baby (求嗣), which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu.

The dates have good element(s) to embro/faetus. Traditionally, the dates are referred for conception planning (making love and expecting a baby to the family). Nowadays, people also make reference to them for Caesarian delivery of new born.


Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

Saturday, December 15, 2012

Auspicious dates for baby first haircut (Mundan) in 2013

In many culture, religion and/or tradition, the first haircut of a baby is considered an important milestone for his/her life. The day is known as Mundan, Chadakarana, Halaqah, Upsherin, etc.

Here is the list of auspicious dates for baby first haircut in year 2013, which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)

Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Auspicious dates for marriage proposal or engagement in 2013

Before becoming the life partner, marriage is proposed by lover and engagement is made.

Here is the list of auspicious dates for marriage proposal or engagement in year 2013 (year of Snake), which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)


Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

Good luck in getting your right life partner.

Sunday, December 2, 2012

Auspicious dates for moving to new house/office in 2013

Here is the list of auspicious dates for moving to new house/office in year 2013, which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)


Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

If you are going to move to a new home, don't forget to visit the "home idea" section of my blog to find out my sharing on mortgage, renovation, furnitures, electrical appliances, pest control, etc.

Thursday, August 16, 2012

Malaysia national and state public holidays for year 2013 announced

The 2013 national and state public holidays in Malaysia will be as below.


There are 14 days of national holiday, and 1 of them fall on Sunday and 3 fall on Saturday. Most of the states will have around 3 state holidays in addition to the national holidays.


Thursday, August 9, 2012

Interesting Android app to display Chinese family relationship terminology 亲戚关系

The Chinese has a very systematic and complex family relationship (a.k.a. kinship) terminology system which maintains a separate designation for almost every one of ego's kin based on their generation, gender, lineage, relative age, etc.

Do you know the Chinese family designation of each and everyone of your relatives? I've found an interesting Android app by chance, which can help you to quickly find out the correct designation. So, no more embarrassment in calling your relatives correctly when you meet with them next time during family gathering, wedding dinner, Chinese New Year visiting, etc.



The app is called My Relatives (亲戚关系) and you can get it from https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.lanhk.myrelatives.

Sunday, July 22, 2012

A family vacation trip to Cherating, Pahang

My family has spent a vacation in Cherating, Pahang recently. It is a nice getaway place at East Coast of Peninsular Malaysia for urban person to take a look at the beauty of nature in the rural part of the country.

We stayed at The Legend Resort, which has an average outlook, but pretty modernly renovated rooms. From the number plate of the cars parked there, it is observed that majority of its guest are from urban area especially Klang Valley.

We booked our room from Internet. We've browsed through the famous hotel reservation websites and group coupon websites, and surprisingly found out that the cheapest rate we could get is actually from the hotel's official website! We stayed at Grand Deluxe Seaview room at the price of RM2xx per night only, and the seaview (photo taken from balcony of the room) is quite nice.


The Legend in Cherating has large swimming pools, as well as long sandy beach. There are many small crabs on the beach...


... and we are warned that there are jelly fishes in the sea. We saw some dead jelly fishes on the shore.


The food in hotel's restaurant is expectingly expensive, and there are many nice and cheap Malay food around, and a Chinese restaurant right at the junction where you turn in from the main road to a small road leading to The Legend Cherating.

In a small village several kilometers at the North of The Legend, there is one Hafiz's Cherating Activities which provides one-stop sight-seeing service around Cherating. To look for En. Hafiz, locate for this signboard in the village.


That night, we've gone for fireflies watching trip and also turtle watching trip.

En. Hafiz is a friendly and nice person who is very knowledgeable about the Cherating River and the Mangrove Forest Researve area along the river. The fireflies are residing in the mangrove forest. Before we got on the boat to watch the fireflies, Hafiz has done a presentation about the information of fireflies, their habitats, life cycle, etc.

Hafiz has learnt a tactic to attract the fireflies to fly near to us by using small torchlights to imitate the fireflies' communication signal. It is really a fantasy experience to have hundreds of fireflies coming to us from the mangrove trees at the river side, and later send them back to the trees. However, use of camera and handphone is forbidden as the light from the device will disturb and cause annoyance to the fireflies, so no photo taken during this amazing trip.

The turtle watching trip was guided by rangers from the Cherating Turtle Sanctuary. The location was at an open beach near Kemaman, some distance away from Cherating village.

When we reached there, a turtle was half-way laying eggs in a hole it digged. It is a green turtle and its egg is about the size of ping pong ball.


That turtle laid 137 eggs that night. It burried the eggs, and the rangers digged them out to bring to the sanctuary for hatching.


The yellow one is actually a ping pong ball brought by the ranger for explanation purpose.

The rangers brought along 3 baskets of 1 day-old baby turtles (about 200 of them) for us to release to the sea.


Off they gone into the sea, remembering this seashore. They will come back years after, when they grown up later, to reproduce and lay eggs at the same beach where they left that night. However, most of the turtles might not be able to survive due to predators and natural challenges in the sea.


We have gone to the Turtle Sanctuary the next day. It is located next to Club Med Cherating. There are 2 adult turtles there, and several small turtles.


The next day, we actually planned to go for snorkelling trip to Snake Island with Hafiz, but we missed the time.

We gone back to Cherating River in Hafiz's day-time mangrove river cruise that evening. It is the same river we watched the fireflies the night before.


During the cruise, we also travelled into a branched small river, where many small animals can be seen.

The crabs in the mangrove forest are very colourful. We saw red and blue crabs there.


During the 2 hours river cruise, beside the crabs, we also encountered with monitor lizards, mud suckers, monkeys, snakes, birds, insects,  etc. It was really a nice experience.

On the way back from Cherating, we've visited Kuala Gandah Elephant Sanctuary near Temerloh, hundred over kilometers away. It is located at the end of a small village, quite some distance away from the main road.



After the retreat, now we are back to urban life. I think we shall revisit Cherating again in the future. It is a wonderful place.

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Emergency SOS phone number that all GSM phones can dial: 112

Nowadays, all mobile phone has a feature enabling you to dial an emergency SOS phone number, even without SIM card in the phone, and even when the phone is locked.

Once the number is dialled, the mobile phone will try to connect to any available GSM network operator, and use the service to connect you to the local emergency respond center. The call is free of charge.

Do you know what is that emergency number?

Yes, it is 112 for all GSM mobile phone and is applicable worldwide. This number will connect you to the respond center of emergency services including police, ambulance, fire & rescue.



In Malaysia, this 112 emergency number will automatically redirect to the local emergency number 999. If your mobile phone is a local set, you can also dial 999 as the emergency number as well. However, if you are using AP set, 999 might not work, but 112 will still work.

If you are in Malaysia, remember these 2 numbers for emergency SOS:
  • 112 for all GSM mobile phones
  • 999 for all wired phones

Sunday, February 5, 2012

Inauspicious dates to avoid for wedding/marriage in 2013

I have posted the list of auspicious dates for wedding/marriage in 2013 recently, and here is the reverse, namely the inauspicious dates to avoid for wedding/marriage in 2013. The list below is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)



If you are concerned, then you should probably avoid getting married on the listed days above.

Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

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Auspicious dates for wedding/marriage in 2013

Many couples plan for their wedding more than 1 year ahead in order to have sufficient preparation time.

Here is the list of auspicious dates for wedding/marriage in year 2013 (year of Snake), which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)



Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.
 
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Saturday, January 14, 2012

Balik Kampung, Rumah Selamat campaign - Get the police to watch over your house during long holiday

Are you staying in Klang Valley and going back to your hometown or long vacation during this coming Chinese New Year?

You can inform the police by filling up the Balik Kampung form online or download the form, fill it up and submit to your nearby police station. This will allow the police to increase patrols in your housing estates and pay particular attention to empty homes during the festive holidays to prevent criminals from breaking into your house.

The police mobile patrol units will leave the Police Visitation Forms in your mailbox as their visit report to your house.

This Balik Kampung campaign also covers gated and guarded communities in Klang Valley area.

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Auspicious dates in 2012 for getting a baby

Here is the list of auspicious dates in 2012 for getting a baby (求嗣), which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu.

The dates have good element(s) to embro/faetus. Traditionally, the dates are referred for conception planning (making love and expecting a baby to the family). Nowadays, people also make reference to them for Caesarian delivery of new born.



Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

Related articles:

    Monday, December 26, 2011

    Auspicious dates for marriage proposal or engagement in 2012

    Before becoming the life partner, marriage is proposed by lover and engagement is made.

    Here is the list of auspicious dates for marriage proposal or engagement in year 2012 (year of Rabbit), which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)



    You might aware that 12 December 2012 (12-12-12) is among the auspicious dates.

    Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

    Good luck in getting your right life partner.

    Related articles:

      Saturday, December 24, 2011

      Auspicious dates for housewarming, open house, party, gathering, etc. in 2012

      Here is the list of auspicious dates in 2012 for organizing and hosting meet-up with friends and/or relatives (会友), which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu.

      The dates are applicable for housewarming, open house, home party, gathering, and any other similar functions to meet up with friends and/or relatives. (Click the image to enlarge)


      Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

      Related articles:

        Wednesday, December 21, 2011

        Auspicious dates for baby first haircut (Mundan) in 2012

        In many culture, religion and/or tradition, the first haircut of a baby is considered an important milestone for his/her life. The day is known as Mundan, Chadakarana, Halaqah, Upsherin, etc.

        Here is the list of auspicious dates for baby first haircut in year 2012, which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)



        Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

        Related articles:

          Monday, December 19, 2011

          Auspicious dates for moving to new house/office in 2012

          Here is the list of auspicious dates for moving to new house/office in year 2012, which is produced based on the Chinese almanac Tong Shu. (Click the image to enlarge)



          Bear in mind that although the Tong Shu is a compilation of Chinese astrology and calendaring studies gathering wisdom of thousands of years, we should use it wisely and rationally, but not be too superstitious on it.

          If you are going to move to a new home, don't forget to visit the "home idea" section of my blog to find out my sharing on mortgage, renovation, furnitures, electrical appliances, pest control, etc.

          Related articles:

            Monday, November 28, 2011

            The cost of buying and owning a property in Malaysia

            The property market in Malaysia has gained quite a lot of interest, especially over the past 3 years when the mortgage loan interest dipped to historical low.

            If you were to buy a property for own stay or for investment, you should be well prepared for the cost involved.

            The typical cost consists of:

            A. One time cost

            1. The booking fee, down payment and subsequent unfinanced payment of the property (normally about 10%-20% of the property price)

            2. Lawyer fee for Sales and Purchase Agreement (calculated based on the property price):

            • First RM150k = 1% (or minimum RM300, whichever higher)
            • Subsequent up to RM1 million = 0.7%
            • Subsequent up to RM3 million = 0.6%
            • Subsequent up to RM5 million = 0.5%
            • Subsequent up to RM7.5 million = 0.4%
            • Above RM7.5 million = negotiable
            3. Miscellaneous fee for preparation of Sales and Purchase Agreement = at least a few hundreds

            4. 6% government tax on total lawyer fee for Sales and Purchase Agreement

            5. Stamp Duty of Sales and Purchase Agreement (calculated based on the property price):
            • First RM100k = 1%
            • Subsequent up to RM500k = 2%
            • Subsequently onwards = 3%
            6. Lawyer fee for Loan Facility Agreement (calculated based on mortgaged amount):
            • First RM150k = 1% (or minimum RM300, whichever higher)
            • Subsequent up to RM1 million = 0.7%
            • Subsequent up to RM3 million = 0.6%
            • Subsequent up to RM5 million = 0.5%
            • Subsequent up to RM7.5 million = 0.4%
            • Above RM7.5 million = negotiable
            7. Stamp Duty of Loan Facility Agreement (calculated based on mortgaged amount) = 0.5%

            8. Miscellaneous fee for preparation of Loan Facility Agreement = at least a few hundreds

            9. 6% government tax on total lawyer fee for Loan Facility Agreement

            10. Land/Strata Ownership Title Transfer = at least a few hundreds + 6% government tax on legal fee

            11. Stamp Duty of Land/Strata Ownership Title Transfer (calculated based on the property price):
            • First RM100k = RM1 for every RM100 or fractional part of RM100
            • Subsequent up to RM500k = RM2 for every RM100 or fractional part of RM100
            • Above RM500k = RM3 for every RM100 or fractional part of RM100
            12. Consent to Charge (for leasehold property) = at least a few hundreds + 6% government tax on legal fee

            13. Mortgage Reducing Term Assurance (MRTA, optional) = a few thousands

            14. Deposit for water and electricity = at least a few hundreds

            15. Deposit for telephone, Internet service, satellite/cable TV (optional) = at least a few hundreds

            16. Renovation and moving cost = depends on you, easily more than RM10k

            B. Recurring cost

            1. Quit rent (yearly) = around RM50

            2. Assessment tax (yearly) = a few hundreds

            3. Fire insurance (yearly) = a few hundreds

            4. Mortgage Level Term Assurance (MLTA, yearly, optional) = a few thousands

            5. Housing loan repayment (monthly) = at least a few hundreds

            6. Severage treatment fee (half yearly) = RM48

            7. Water, electricity, telephone, Internet, satellite/cable TV, etc. = depends on usage

            8. Cooking gas = depends on usage

            9. Security fee (for gated & guarded community or apartment/condominium) = depends

            10. Maintenance fee and sinking fund (for apartment/condominium) = depends

            11. Car park rental (optional for certain apartment/condominium) = depends

            12. Pest and termite control service (yearly, optional) = at least a few hundreds

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            Tuesday, November 8, 2011

            Family outdoor activity at Janda Baik, Pahang

            My family with some 20 families altogether, have brought our kids who live in urban city to a small village called Janda Baik (coordinates: 3°19'42.94"N, 101°51'43.29"E) in Pahang for a 2-days-1-night parenting activity organized by the Family Learning Centre (亲子学苑) of the United Chinese School Teachers' Association Of Malaysia (教总).

            This is a wonderful experience, as most of the organized camping activities only involve the kids, but this camping invites both the parents and children to experience the nature together.

            The journey started by visiting to a waterfall. At first, we entered into the jungle following a smooth lane.


            What a nice jungle walk where we can see and try to identify the different kinds of leaves, flowers, plants, insects and small animals. We are also able to see some of the buildings of Genting Highlands from far.


            Soon, the journey became more and more challenging as we entered the untreated lane.


            We needed to climb through relatively steep sloves, walking through slippery mud and crossing through waterlogging, before we finally reached the waterfall.


            When I reached the waterfall, I found a bloody leech on my leg. Ouch!

            We spent most of our time in a platform of New Era Organic Farm, located quite some distance away from the waterfall. This wooden pyramid-shape platform is the place where we eat, play and sleep.


            There is a small river near the New Era Organic Farm. Its water is clean, fresh and chilling cool. The children like it very much.


            Entering the organic farm all bare footedly, the children also learned to do farming in the farm.


            We had camp fire and BBQ at night. No animal was harmed. We only grilled sweet corns in the BBQ.

            The trip ended next day with horse feeding in a nearby small horse farm.


            This is a nice outdoor activity for our children to get close to nature, and for us to relax ourselves, break away temporary from busy urban living.

            Sunday, October 9, 2011

            A visit to Logos Hope ship - the world largest floating book fair

            Logos Hope, a ship known as the world’s largest floating book fair, is now berthed at Port Klang Cruise Centre at Pulau Indah (photo below), Selangor, and is open for public visit from 29 September 2011 until 23 October 2011. After that, it will depart to Kuching, Kota Kinabalu, Singapore and other ports around the world.


            Opening hours:
            • Tue - Sat: 10am - 10pm
            • Sun: 1pm - 10pm
            • Mon: closed
            The ship is big. You can find out the technical details of Logos Hope and its book library features here.



            After boarding, the tour in Logos Hope started with a 2 minutes video introduction about the ship, then you will go through the exhibition area, book fair area, multimedia "Life Experience" display, cafeteria, interactive educational section, and finally the exit.

            There is actually quite a big crowd visiting Logos Hope, and the stream of people boarding and departing the ship is continuous. The photo below only captured one section of the book fair.


            The books are quite cheap, especially those McGraw-Hill textbooks at the last section of the book fair. Most of the books are selling in special units, and Logos Hope uses a currency conversion scheme to convert the units to RM. Some of the items are sold directly in RM without the need of conversion.

            If you haven't visit Logos Hope yet, I recommend you to do so. It is a good experience boarding to the world largest floating book fair.

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